You Gonna Make Her Love Somebody Else

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This blog was inspired from one line, “told me a lie and didn’t have an alibi”, from Jocelyn Brown’s song entitled “Somebody Else’s Guy”.

Don’t make relationship decisions for other people. If you are in a relationship tell the potential other woman that you are in relationship. Then let her decide if she wants to be the other woman.

Some women might be comfortable with being the other woman, however the lies come in when a man wants to enter into an extra relationship with a woman they know is not willing to settle for the number two position.

Remember “everything that happens in the dark comes to the light” and it is not fair to the man or the two women in this triangle.

If you do not want to be with the one you are with any more, the two of you should effectively communicate what the problem is and then together try to come up with solutions to the problem(s).

One of the solutions might be seeking professional help from a relationship counselor, church leader, etc.

If the two of you cannot come up with an amicable solution, then the solution should be for the two of you to part ways. Because it is not fair to the relationship if one or both of the people involved is miserable.

“One man’s trash is another man’s treasure” and if you don’t take care of your woman, someone else will be more than happy to take care of her for you.

In conclusion, do the right thing or in the words of The Jones Girls your woman might say “You Gonna Make Me Love Somebody Else”.

by Soul Food by April Sims

5 Responses to You Gonna Make Her Love Somebody Else

  1. Eli February 11, 2012 at 8:57 AM

    Fantastic content, I actually count on messages from you.

  2. Stephen Young February 23, 2012 at 7:22 AM

    The song by Jocelyn Brown(Somebody Else’s Guy) was a favorite of mine. However, I must admit, I never really listened closely to the words. The upbeat melody attracted me. Unfaithfulness is a huge problem in relationships. You are right to blog about it. However, sex and not love is a strong addiction. I feel it will continue to destroy relationships for sometime.

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